Me vs. Collector — The Blog

Plain-English guides
for people getting harassed.

FDCPA rights explained. Common violations broken down. Step-by-step strategies for fighting back — written for someone getting calls at midnight, not a law school classroom.

I'm not a lawyer. I got harassed by a debt collector and started writing down everything I found out about what they're actually allowed to do. This is that research — plain English, no legalese, updated as I learn more.

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Violation
They Called My Boss After I Asked Them to Stop. Is That Illegal?

A collector called my job after I told them not to. I found out that's a clear FDCPA violation — and one of the easiest to prove. Here's exactly what I learned.

July 2026 · 7 min read
Lawsuit
How Suing a Debt Collector Works — Even If You've Never Been to Court

I had no idea what an FDCPA lawsuit actually looked like from the inside. Here's the step-by-step process I found out about, from the free consultation to how cases typically resolve.

July 2026 · 9 min read
State Laws
FDCPA vs. State Laws: Many States Give You Even More Protection

I assumed the FDCPA was the whole story. Then I found out my state had its own, sometimes stronger, rules layered on top. Here's what I learned about federal law as a floor, not a ceiling.

July 2026 · 8 min read
Violation
They Called Me 11 Times This Week. The Law Has an Exact Number.

I started counting the calls. Turns out federal law has an exact bright-line number for how many times a collector can call in a week — and I'd already blown past it.

July 2026 · 7 min read
Statute of Limitations
The Statute of Limitations on Debt: Why Collectors Pray You Don't Ask

Every debt has an expiration date for lawsuits. I found out mine had already passed — and that the collector calling me may not have been allowed to threaten a lawsuit at all.

July 2026 · 8 min read
Violation
Can a Debt Collector Garnish My Wages? What I Found Out

They can't garnish your wages without a court judgment — and even then, federal law limits how much. Here's what I found out, including when the threat itself is a violation.

June 2026 · 8 min read
Strategy
What Not to Say to a Debt Collector — 7 Phrases That Can Hurt You

I almost said the wrong things and gave collectors power I didn't have to give. Here are 7 phrases to never say — and what I learned to say instead.

June 2026 · 9 min read
Strategy
What Happens If You Ignore a Debt Collector?

I tried ignoring the calls for weeks. Here's what actually happened — and the one scenario where ignoring has serious consequences.

June 2026 · 8 min read
Violation
Can a Debt Collector Legally Text Me?

Texts from collectors are legal under Regulation F — but only with strict rules most collectors don't follow perfectly. Here's what I found out.

June 2026 · 7 min read
Statute of Limitations
Does Paying Old Debt Restart the Statute of Limitations?

I almost paid $50 to make the calls stop. An attorney told me not to. Here's why that payment could have cost me the legal protection I already had.

June 2026 · 9 min read
Violation
Can a Debt Collector Show Up at My Door? What Are My Rights?

Someone knocked and identified themselves as a collector. Here's exactly what I found out about in-person contact rights — and what they cannot do.

June 2026 · 7 min read
Violation
What Can a Debt Collector Say in a Voicemail?

There are very specific federal rules for what collectors can and cannot say in a voicemail. Here's what I found out — and why you should save every message.

June 2026 · 8 min read
Violation
Can a Debt Collector Contact Me on Social Media?

I got a DM from someone claiming to be a collector. Here's exactly what Regulation F says — and when a social media contact becomes a violation.

June 2026 · 6 min read
Statute of Limitations
What Is Zombie Debt — and How Collectors Use It Against You

Zombie debt is old, time-barred debt that collectors try to resurrect. Here's how the business model works — and the one move that can accidentally revive it.

June 2026 · 8 min read
Debt Types
Medical Debt Collectors — Your Rights Are Different. Here's What I Found Out.

A hospital bill went to collections and I assumed the rules were the same as credit card debt. They're not entirely. Here's what I found out about medical debt collector rights in 2026.

June 2026 · 9 min read
Lawsuit
Can a Debt Collector Actually Sue You Over a Debt? Here's What Happens Next.

A debt collector threatening to sue you is terrifying — but most people don't know what actually happens, when to worry, or that being sued can actually work in your favor.

May 2026 · 11 min read
Strategy
Debt Validation Letter: How to Force a Collector to Prove You Owe It

A collector said I owed money. I asked them to prove it. Here's what a debt validation letter does, when to send it, what to write, and what happens if they can't verify the debt.

May 2026 · 10 min read
Strategy
How to Send a Cease and Desist Letter to a Debt Collector

I sent a cease and desist letter to stop debt collector calls — and it worked. Here's exactly what I wrote, what happened next, and what the law says they have to do.

May 2026 · 9 min read
News & Context
The Federal Watchdog Has Been Defanged. Here's What I Found Out.

The CFPB still exists — technically. But its mission has been changed, its staff gutted, and its headquarters closed. Here's what happened and what it means for you.

April 2026 · 9 min read
Violation
They Threatened to Arrest Me for Not Paying a Debt. Is That Legal?

A debt collector threatening you with arrest is one of the most common — and most explicitly illegal — tactics in the industry. Here's exactly what the law says and what to do next.

April 2026 · 8 min read
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