Me vs. Collector — The Blog

Plain-English guides
for people getting harassed.

FDCPA rights explained. Common violations broken down. Step-by-step strategies for fighting back — written for someone getting calls at midnight, not a law school classroom.

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News & Context
The Federal Watchdog Has Been Defanged. Here’s What I Found Out.

The CFPB still exists — technically. But its mission has been changed, its staff gutted, and its headquarters closed. Here's what happened and what it means for you.

April 2026 · 9 min read
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Violation
They Threatened to Arrest Me for Not Paying a Debt. Is That Legal?

A debt collector threatening you with arrest is one of the most common — and most explicitly illegal — tactics in the industry. Here's exactly what the law says and what to do next.

April 2026 · 8 min read
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Violation
They Called My Boss After I Asked Them to Stop. Is That Illegal?

Workplace harassment after notice is a clear FDCPA violation — and one of the easiest to prove. Here's exactly what the law says and how to document it.

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Strategy
I Sent a Cease and Desist Letter to a Debt Collector. The Calls Stopped.

One letter, sent certified mail, creates a legal obligation to stop all contact. Here's what I wrote, how I sent it, and what the law actually requires them to do next.

May 2026 · 9 min read · MEvsCO
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Violation
They Called Me 11 Times This Week. The Law Has an Exact Number.

The CFPB's 2021 Regulation F created a bright-line rule: 7 calls in 7 days. If they crossed it, that's a federal violation with a paper trail in your phone records.

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Lawsuit
How Suing a Debt Collector Works — Even If You've Never Been to Court

A step-by-step look at the FDCPA lawsuit process: finding an attorney, the free consultation, how cases typically resolve, and what the timeline looks like.

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Debt Types
Medical Debt and the FDCPA: Special Rules Collectors Hope You Don't Know

Medical debt has unique protections — from credit reporting rules to validation requirements. Collectors violate these constantly. Here's what applies to your situation.

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Strategy
They Said I Owed It. I Asked Them to Prove It.

A debt validation letter puts the whole collection on pause until they produce documentation. Most people never send one. Here's the letter, the 30-day window, and what happens when they can't verify.

May 2026 · 10 min read · MEvsCO
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Strategy
They're Threatening to Sue Me Over a Debt. Here's What Actually Happens Next.

Most people don't know the difference between a lawsuit threat and an actual lawsuit — or that being sued can actually work in your favor. The plain-English breakdown: default judgments, counterclaims, time-barred debt.

May 2026 · 11 min read · MEvsCO
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Violation
The Statute of Limitations on Debt: Why Collectors Pray You Don't Ask

Every debt expires for legal purposes. Threatening to sue on time-barred debt is potentially illegal. Here's how to find out if your debt is past the limit — by state.

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State Laws
FDCPA vs. State Laws: Many States Give You Even More Protection

The FDCPA is a federal floor — many states have built additional protections on top. California, New York, and Texas all have stronger rules. Here's the full breakdown.

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